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Click the video above for a little background music while you read my final thought this month..

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Hello to all my Metro family and friends! I hope you survived winter, and remember, Spring is just around the corner... I promise!

I had a great couple months spending time with my kids and brothers in our annual Vegas trip in January, and also meeting up with my brothers again in Florida for our annual spring training trip in February which was a blast! 

I also attended the 15th annual Dan McCarty / UHY Cares Texas Holdem event which was held on February 12th. It was great seeing so many people come together to support this incredible charity event, and was once again sold out with 180 players. The event raised over $31,000 which will support the many local charities in and around Detroit. Thank you Steve McCarty, UHY Cares team, and the fine folks at Petruzzello's in Troy for a first rate event. Also, thank you for the hundreds of players, donors, and wonderful sponsors for making this night such a huge success.

Margaret and I had a lovely Valentine's dinner at the Texas Roadhouse in Novi, Michigan. We followed that up with a great show seeing Heywood Banks at the Howell Opera House doing his wild comedy and songs.

Our 15th McCarty Metro Pigskin Pickem game came to an end with the Super Bowl in February as well. I would like to thank everyone who played this year. It is a 5 month commitment, but the time just flies by, and it is a lot of fun. Congratulations to the Seattle Seahawks who won the Super Bowl 60 game on the field, and congrats to our Pigskin champion Rambo who won this years' event.

After various doctors visits over the last few years, I have had increasing PSA levels. Upon going to my urologist, it was found that I have prostate cancer. I will know soon of the prognosis, and possible courses of action. I would really appreciate if you can please keep me and my family in your thoughts and prayers as this disease plays out.

Thank you for taking the time to submit material this month, or just reading and participating in this issue. Just remember our readers are also our writers. Our next edition of the McCarty Metro be out in May, so I would like to wish you all a Happy St. Patrick's day, a blessed Easter, and a Fun (there's a spider on the wall) April Fools!

My final thought I leave you with until then is a story about the late great Robin Williams. I have seen other stories of his generosity, and it shows what we all should be like. Enjoy...

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In a quiet pediatric wing of a San Francisco hospital in the late 1990s, a nurse paused outside a room, blinking back tears. Inside, a small boy with terminal cancer was doubled over in laughter. Dressed in scrubs three sizes too big, with a stethoscope around his neck and a ridiculous red nose, Robin Williams had the child laughing so hard he momentarily forgot the pain. No cameras, no press, no entourage. Only Robin, doing voices, pulling faces, imitating cartoon characters, making joy out of thin air.

These visits were never scheduled through Hollywood. They were arranged privately through hospital staff who had quietly come to know him as more than an actor or comedian. He would often call ahead anonymously, asking if there were any children who might benefit from a visit. Many times, he arrived alone, sometimes with a bag of puppets, or dressed in character, even slipping into his iconic "Mrs. Doubtfire" voice. The children, some too weak to sit up, would smile, giggle, or whisper a joke back. Parents watched in awe as their child, often in the final days of life, laughed again. Sometimes for the first time in weeks.

One nurse recalled a 2003 visit when Robin spent over an hour with a ten-year-old leukemia patient who had only days left. The boy's father had been stoic for weeks, refusing to cry in front of his son. That day, as Robin pretended to conduct an invisible orchestra of squeaky IV poles and sang a ridiculous operatic ballad to the beeping of heart monitors, the man finally wept. Not from grief, but from relief.

Robin never spoke about these visits in interviews. Even those closest to him, including longtime friends and collaborators, learned about them through others. Some families tried to thank him publicly, but he always declined. He believed the experience belonged to the child, not to him, and certainly not to any public narrative. For Robin, the visit wasn’t an act of charity or performance. It was a human connection, raw and unfiltered.

In 2006, during a stop in Denver for a show, he drove over an hour to meet a terminally ill teenage girl whose favorite movie was "Aladdin". She had grown up reciting the Genie’s lines, and when Robin stepped into the room and started riffing in that unforgettable voice, she lit up. Her mother later wrote that Robin stayed long after the visit should have ended, talking to her daughter like an old friend, listening as much as entertaining.

It took remarkable emotional strength to step into those rooms. These weren’t film sets. There were no rewrites, no retakes. The children were often fading, the air heavy with grief, and yet he found ways to ignite hope, even if only briefly. He never rushed. He sat on floors, shared ice pops, held hands. Afterward, he often sat alone in his car for a long time, sometimes crying, sometimes calling a friend just to hear a familiar voice.

By 2010, hospital staff in several cities had come to know that if Robin was in town, there might be a call. No one ever publicized it, because he didn’t want it that way. It wasn’t about headlines or accolades. He often told nurses that if he could make one kid forget where they were, even for ten minutes, it was worth everything.

His visits didn’t cure illnesses or change medical outcomes. But they did something else. They gave a flicker of joy to the fading. They softened the hardest moments for grieving families. And they reminded everyone in the room, patients, parents, nurses, even Robin himself, that laughter still had power, even at the edge of goodbye.

Sometimes, healing isn’t about medicine. It’s about making someone feel alive, even for a moment, when the world says they shouldn't.

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Here's to being like Robin and bring a smile to someone who can really use it.


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