Maryland, DC, 911 Memorial
By Marianne Rzepka
In
early June, Margaret and her favorite sister Marianne drove
to Rockville, Maryland, just outside Washington D.C. for a
memorial to honor Dr. John Sever, their sister-in-law
Beverly’s
father, who was a pioneer in the field of pediatric
infectious diseases, including polio and AIDS. Marianne
writes about the trip.
Friday
Morning:
After an 8-hour-plus drive from Michigan to Maryland, we
checked into our hotel in Rockville - where a know-nothing
clerk seemed not to know what a luggage rack was or - since
we were plenty hungry - the location of the closest
restaurant.
The
clerk said there were no restaurants within walking
distance, but after nine hours in the car, we wanted to
stretch our legs, so we took off for a little pre-dinner
stroll. We walked across the street and around an office
building and saw a parking lot in front of an Italian
restaurant, where we had a nice dinner. When we got back to
the hotel, we told the clerk about the nearly next-door
restaurant, and she told us, “Some
people don’t
like Italian food.”
Saturday
Memorial:
A long day for Dr. Sever’s
memorial services, with family and friends attending church
services and a public gathering to remember his personal and
professional life.
After
a memorial service for family and close friends at the
Potomac United Methodist Church in Potomac, followed by
internment in the church cemetery, we met at a brunch for
family at a local restaurant, where we sat at a Rzepka table
with our brother Chris and Beverly, their son Matt and his
girlfriend Eveline, and our niece Christina.
The
memorial service that afternoon was in a large room at the
senior living building where Dr. Sever lived with his wife
Gerane. An estimated 200 people - family and friends -
turned out for the afternoon memorial where the Sever's
daughters and a number of grandchildren - gave their
personal remembrances of Dr. Sever, describing how Dr. and
Mrs. Sever were there for them at pretty much every event -
school concerts, birthdays, graduations - throughout their
lives.
Back
in a time when polio was a major fear, Dr. Sever started the
initiative to eradicate the crippling disease through Rotary
International, working with UNICEF and leaders in countries
globally to sponsor the decades long effort.
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Dr. John Sever
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Mike
McGovern, chairman of Rotary’s
International PolioPlus Committee who flew in from Maine for
the memorial, said Dr. Sever hoped he would live to see the
end of polio in the world. Though the disease can still be
found in Pakistan and Afghanistan, there are only four cases
left of live polio virus today, McGovern said. He cited
estimates that 20 million people are alive and healthy today
because of the polio vaccine.
When
the afternoon memorial finished, Beverly and Chris invited a
group of us over to their house in Rockville for food and
conversation, to end the day.
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pictured are
family...
brother Chris, nephew Cory,
sister Margaret, cousin Carolyn, her husband Craig,
sister-in-law Beverly, niece Christina, and me Marianne |
Sunday
on the National Mall:
Despite the lack of a working clock radio and a room
refrigerator that froze anything in the top two shelves,
Margaret and I had a good night’s
sleep in preparation for a day at the National Mall in
Washington D.C.
We
took the Metro to the station only a few blocks from the
Mall. Luckily for Margaret, who had forgotten to bring a hat
on this sunny day, we came across a Nordstrom Rack - open on
a Sunday morning - to get her a new, sturdy chapeau. It came
in handy as we traversed the two-mile long grassy mall -
though our feet felt like we had walked 200 miles - from the
National Botanic Gardens to the obelisk of the Washington
Monument and beyond to the stately Lincoln Monument.
At
the botanic garden, which celebrated its 200th anniversary
in 2020, the two of us strolled outside though beds of
trees, bushes and flowers and inside the glass domed
conservatory, where you could take the world’s
slowest elevator from the floor of a tropical jungle up into
the steamy upper branches.
Outside,
we took our time walking west along the Mall, stopping for
water and snacks on our way. It was an active day out on the
mall: We passed kites flying next to the Washington
Monument, tourists riding Segways and a softball game.
Since
we only had one day for everything the two of us wanted to
see, Margaret and I walked past a lot of buildings we might
want to go into someday, including the National Gallery of
Art, where we had lunch at their outdoor cafe; the
curvilinear National Museum of the American Indian; The
National Museum of American History; and the massive
National Museum of African American History and Culture. We
also found our way past the World War II memorial, as well
as the Vietnam War and Korean War walls.
Unfortunately,
because of our tendency to take too many photos, our cell
phones were nearly zero percent by the time we reached the
Lincoln Memorial, so we depended on an old-fashioned paper
map to find the shortest way back to the Metro station and
about 40 minutes later, we were at the Rockville parking
lot.
We
got back to our hotel - where more responsive staff were
behind the front desk - to freshen up, then met with Beverly
at our favorite Rockville Italian restaurant for dinner,
where the waiter remembered us.
Monday
Visit to Flight 93 National Memorial:
Margaret and I were packed up and gone from our hotel (after
leaving a nice tip for the housekeepers who gave us more
towels and tissues) about 9 a.m., heading for home via a
stop at the Flight 93 National Memorial.
There
are few signs to get to the national memorial, and the
mountains around the roadway made GPS spotty, but we found
it - again with the help of a paper map.
The
memorial marks the spot where United Airlines Flight 93
crashed into the fields of Somerset County, Pennsylvania, on
9/11. The plane was one of four hijacked on that day: two
hit the World Trade Center in Manhattan and another hit the
Pentagon, but the passengers banded together to attack the
hijackers who were aiming the plane into Washington D.C. The
passengers and crew broke into the cockpit, and in the
ensuing struggle the terrorists flipped the plane upside
down and slammed
it into the ground.
The
area, once closed to the public, now has an imposing
visitors center with banks of photos, video and sound that
tell the story. The visitors center stands on a hill
overlooking the impact site and part of the debris field,
and you can see the 17-ton sandstone boulder that marks the
impact site.
Visitors
can follow a trail down from the visitor center to a walkway
running alongside the debris field. At the end of the
walkway is a row of marble panels, each engraved with the
name of a passenger or crew member who died on the flight.
A
short drive away, near the entrance, is a 93-foot tall Tower
of Voices that holds 40 chimes for the 40 passengers and
crew on Flight 93. When we stopped there, the winds were not
strong enough to move the polished aluminum chimes, but we
listened to them on our phones: https://www.nps.gov/flni/planyourvisit/tower-of-voices.htm.
We
left the National Monument after about two hours and headed
for home with stops only for gas and restrooms. The sun was
just going down when we got off the highway and headed to
Margaret’s
house. We pulled into her driveway just after 9 p.m., almost
exactly twelve hours after leaving Rockville.
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